Leaving a Toxic relationship is better!
How do people fall into toxic relationships? Being in a toxic relationship, can feel good at first , but in the end, it doesn’t turn out well. Some people like to ignore their conscious and do what they feel right now ,instead of listening to their voice of reason. So, can some toxic relationships work out? No! Leaving is the best solution and that’s a fact. Especially, if we love ourselves, whether man or woman, we all have self worth, if we believe. Being a toxic person, can rub off on other people and create a negative atmosphere. In a relationship, that can pull your partner’s spirit down. When you have a man/woman doing productive and positive works in his/her life, we don’t want to have an unnecessary high stress level. I believe that the best solution for the toxic issue, is to run as far as we can.
Toxic relationships can kill our self esteem and get us depressed to a point where we isolate ourselves from our family, friends, and even our worksite. Toxic people don’t think accurately, unfortunately, react off the first impulse, which is negative. But according to Vanessa Burton www.askmen.com, she observed that most women forgive men for cheating, lying, and being deceitful. No one really knows why because there is not a solid reason as to why women would do such thing. Women often follow their hearts before they follow their minds when they shouldn’t. That is where the problem comes into play. Some women just seem to love their “man” so much that it seems like there is nothing he can do to make her let go. Just as Mary J. Blige’s song lyrics to Mr.Wrong goes, she states that she “can’t think of nothing that’ll make her walk out”. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mL-LQTBQlPg
So it is just an unspoken fact that although women despise men for hurting them emotionally, they just can’t leave them alone even though they should.
I believe that when a women stays in a "toxic relationship" its all her choice. If she really wanted to leave then she would. But if she doesn't leave then that's on her for the simple fact that she has a choice. By staying with someone that isn't good for you, obviously is your own fault. There are not just guys that create a so called toxic relationship. Women can too.
ReplyDeleteIt is easy for a person, male or female to stay in a toxic relationship if they are the type of person that loves the idea of a relationship, not necessarily the one they actually have.
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ReplyDeleteSometimes being in a toxic relationship can creep up on you. It can be a Dr. Jekle and Mr. Hyde situation. We can realize at the last minute.