What females do that men don’t like?
Starting with the makeup. I call it “M.A.C. Syndrome”. This means wearing too much makeup in my book. Men like to see what you look like naturally. They don’t want to wake up beside their girl the next morning and think, “DAMN, is that you?”, just to keep it real. They don’t want all that makeup on their pillows in the morning. Please learn how to apply it right and not cake it on, as if you were a clown in a circus.
No nagging and unnecessary questions! Honey, you are not their mother. When you do this it makes them not like you! No one likes to be nagged at 24/7. The questions, “Who were you with?” and “What were you doing?” gets old pretty quickly. Watch this youtube video and you’ll see what I mean. Hell, I don’t like being asked a hundred questions either. You’re like a cop interrogating someone.Stop it!
One thing that really drives them crazy is having low self esteem. If they think you were ugly in the first place they wouldn’t be with you, have you ever thought about that? When a woman asks the question,“Do I look fat?”, she gets mad with a yes or no answer. If he says no she thinks he’s telling a lie. If he says yes then she thinks he is being mean. Either way it’s a lose lose situation. You should just save your tears and not even ask them anything about your appearance. Learn how to control your emotions please.
Guys hate hearing sob stories. They really don’t care about how you feel. All they want to do is stop you from crying so they can stop listening to the story they care nothing about! I asked a few guys myself and they said the really big thing they hate is being over dramatic. Let’s not lie we as females can be pretty dramatic, but every time you go somewhere you don’t have to start a scene when something doesn’t go your way. For example say you’re at Macy’s and you see these nice Jessica Simpson shoes that you love. They are a pair of black pumps. You ask the woman that works there to get the size you need. You say you need an eight in a half so she comes back and tells you they don’t have anymore in that size. There are two ways to solve this situation. A. Let it go and order the size you need online. B. Pitch a fit and cuss the woman out. If you choose option B then you’re a drama queen, no questions asked. That’s the shit men don’t like. That’s a good way to be replaced. Ladies lets stop doing these annoying things and woman up. I know it can be hard at times, but lets not be what men want and start being what men need.
Women can find a lot of things that men do that is annoying as well. My opinion is that if a woman can find a man that is with her for the right reason and they both help each other to better each other than you can get over those bumps. In today's time, people aren't ready for a real relationship.
ReplyDeleteEveryone has something that they don't like about their boyfriend or girlfriend, but those things can so easily be over looked and out weighed by the good things about the person. When it come to men and women and who bothers who more, I would have to say its pretty even. Men bother women as much as women bother men.
ReplyDeleteI think Rebecca makes a good point--men do bother women as much as we bother them. Maybe an idea for a future blog post?
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