Do You Have The Green Light?

Almost every woman always has the perfect vision in her mind of how her marriage will be. Before you get to that part, the first thing you have to do is complete the hardest task which is exchanging numbers.The average woman expects for a man to approach her when interest is shown between them. This is primarily because he’s the man and she’s the woman. Women feel as if the man should take the initiative and put forth the effort to jump start something new. I’m pretty sure no woman, that is interested in men, wants to feel the pressure and degradation of having to approach a man to express her interest in him. This is a main reason why women do not approach men first. Most females, like myself, will remain single and without companionship for extended periods of time if the only way to get it is to execute the first move.

There are plenty of reasons why women simply refuse to grace a man with her words and presence before he has done so. We mostly have the thought instilled in our mind that “it’s not our job” so we act accordingly and do our best to make anything get his attention and rewardingly come over and speak. Rebel Leader explains in her article how she works her body language to seduce a man to approach her. Leader demonstrates through words how she makes eye contact and flashes her flirty smile to assure the victim that she’s after is certain that he has the green light to come talk to her. These could be tips that women use when trying to catch a potential partner for romantic possibility without actually going to get him.Too Scared To Approach

Not all women are bold enough to even send signals to the man that has her attention. While some women have too much pride to approach a man, other women don’t have enough courage to do so due to their insecurities and/or low self-esteem. Haley’s Halo gossip column explains eight reasons why women do not draw near to men first and some of those reasons are because she’s shy, she’s intimidated, she feels he’s out of her league, he’s surrounded by other men, he’s surrounded by attractive women, or he has not or is not showing any interest in her. This makes it even harder for her to even consider to attempt to make the first move when she feels as if she will be rejected. Pete Sapper is a relationship “guru” that explains to men three ways to make themselves appear more available so they won’t intimidate women or scare them off. Just as women do when trying to get a man’s attention, men should make eye contact with the woman to secure her knowledge that he’s interested. He should also smile to set a warm and welcoming environment. This should ease the woman’s mind and nerves about her decision to approach him. Lastly, he should make the space around him available for her to enter into as well. For example, if a man was sitting on a bench and was aware that a woman was interested in him he should make sure there is enough room for her to sit down and make sure he’s not sitting too close to her to make her feel uncomfortable or too far away to give her the impression that he’s not interested. These tips and gestures could possibly enable more women to be more open to approaching men first.